突然感触之思想狭隘

我最近中了梁文道的毒。读多了,强烈地感受到我那沉睡的中文底蕴好似要苏醒过来了!呵呵!这应该算是件喜事!但是, 读多了,也带来坏事。。。我也强烈地感受到我汹涌澎湃的思绪!:p

我在想:当时事评论员真过瘾!他们只须批评,并不用提成实际的解决方案。试想想,在现实生活当中,如果我遇到一个凡事都诸多批评、诸多不满、诸多挑剔、诸多意见的人,我一定会将他归类为面·目·可·憎

很不幸的,我觉得我今天面目可憎了。。。 哈哈!午餐时和同事因为思想的分歧,辩论得面红耳赤。同事认为:“有刺青者,皆非善类。如果有朝一日,我当了老板,我一定不会雇用有刺青者。”我反问:“那无刺青者皆善类不成?!一个有本事、善良的人,就因为弄了个刺青,他就突然没本事、不善良了?!”

本小姐非常不能忍受狭隘思维:-

–          女生一定要留长发

–          同性恋是罪不可赦

–          去大学上课一定不可以穿便服

–          一定要在30岁前事业有成,结婚生子

–          女生无才便是得 ,嫁人最实际

–          长子嫡孙背负着最多家族使命

我其实提醒过自己的:口舌之争,赢了又何喜,输了更可悲! 还有,我也抵触了我要修成的大智慧:我感受到,但是我不受影响。I feel it, but it won’t affect me. 无奈,我还是破戒了!

我说我面目可憎,因为即使同事是思想狭隘,又如何?我的恶性反应不也表示我也是思想狭隘了吗?当别人不认同自己,就很惯性地想要辩驳、批评、迫不及待地想要将自己的我思我想给灌注在别人身上,这很劣根叻!“我感受到,但是我不受影响。”真是一门大学问,我得继续修行!

我要再次提醒自己:no judging!

judge

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2 Responses to “突然感触之思想狭隘”


  1. 1 janice June 4, 2013 at 10:49 am

    哈哈哈…..
    在你的寫裡行間都會感受你的不滿. 有可能轉了是我, 我都會同佢理論到底.

    是否每個人都會有一把尺, 好死死實實地, 用他心中個把尺去量每人既”真.善.美”?
    我真係好想問個位人, 有紋身等於”皆非善类”, 何問在他心中”何謂善類”, 是好單純沒有紋身就是善類?

    • 2 sam meow June 4, 2013 at 10:56 am

      其实,我们并需要理解他为什么会觉得有纹身者皆非善类,他思他想,他做主,我们也实在没必要干预,不是吗? 🙂


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